So I went to lunch with Matt Moore. We talked about all kinds of things, and towards the end, we started talking about Tod. I asked for his advice and I was able to listen to it because it didn't feel like an attack on how I was doing things or on how Tod was dealing with things. Circumstances make all the difference, apparently. ...and, Matt's a guy
I don't want to be put on the back burner while Tod goes off and does his own thing with me as the backup plan. True, it is an elaborate back-up plan, but one nonetheless. I don't have to get over Tod all at once, but if I'm on the back burner for him, then he can be on the back burner for me, if that. My plan to go on random dates with other people was affirmed and approved. The possibility of Tod not being "the one" also came up. I was reminded about what my focus should be on and that there are worthwhile people out there. He agreed that going on dates with other people was a good idea and then added something: make sure Tod knows about it.
If the internship and things don't work in California, I guess I could always see what Renee and Travis are doing...
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Glad you had the convo with Matt. It's always so wonderful to get a guys perspective. Let me know how things go in CA.
I hope you don't think of my comments and reactions as attacking you or Tod. It's not meant that way. (ok, for Tod maybe it was a little bit) I'm just trying to give you my honest opinions. You can, obviously, ignore whatever I say. You're an adult. You make your own decisions, and I'll love you whatever you decide. I'm just trying to give you some things to consider. I'd definitely have some serious talks with Heidi. She's in the best position to give you advice, since she knows Tod and is your sister (so she can completely relate to all your growing up issues).
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